FAQ for FemaleThe first time a woman has sex, it may or may not be painful.There may be psychological and physical reasons for it. If you are not sure about your partner or if you are not entirely convinced about the timing and place, then you may feel more pain than you should. If you and your partner truly care for one another and he is gentle and understanding and will go slowly, then there may be less discomfort. Physically, often, the first time a woman has sex there will be some bleeding as the hymen is torn. Using large amounts of a water-based lubricant may help. If you have been using tampons, that may have helped to stretch your hymen.
There is a lot of talk regarding the most erotic zones for a woman. The Grafenberg spot, or G-spot, is considered to be one such area. This is an area located within the front wall of the vagina, about one centimetre from the surface and one-third to one-half way in from the vaginal opening.The significance of the G-spot is that in about half the women it is a highly sensitive area that under the right conditions can be very pleasurable if stimulated. For some women, it can be a primary source of stimulation leading to orgasm during intercourse.It is believed that stimulation of the G-Spot can lead to what is known as female ejaculation.
 
  • The penis can become erect at very early stage, especially in a young man. This does not mean that he is necessarily ready the for intercourse and he may start too soon - before his partner feels ready. She may become anxious as she feels she is keeping him waiting.
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  • Vaginal lubrication may remain hidden especially in lying down positions. Both partners may assume she is not responding, when in fact she is. Penis gives a more obvious signal which the vagina may not.
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  • Arousal comes in waves in both the man and the woman. This is normal. The decline doesn't mean that something is wrong.
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  • Premature ejaculation (coming too soon, before the partner is ready) is normal in young men, particularly when very much aroused. Control comes with learning and practice.
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  • Many women may not have orgasm but are fully responsive. This doesn’t mean that they are frigid.
  •   Early sexual relationships may not have orgasms in women. Partners need not worry. Anxiety further inhibits it.
     
  • The husband snoring one minute after ejaculating can produce resentment if the wife is still feeling the need for intimacy. The men have their refractory period (time during which sexual arousal is difficult) very fast. Woman need not feel upset you can wake up your husband sometimes and let him know.
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  • The ability of the breasts to produce milk diminishes soon after childbirth, without the stimulation of breast-feeding.
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  • The immunity factors in breast milk can help the body fight off infections.
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  • Breast milk contains vitamins, minerals and enzymes, which aid the baby’s digestion.
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  • Breast and formula feeding can be used together.
  • Bleeding after intercourse can occur for several reasons. Infection is one of the most common reasons.Abnormal cervical cells, including cancer, are also more easily irritated and may bleed with intercourse. Women who use an IUD or diaphragm may experience such bleeding from irritation and friction. Sometimes the bleeding is not from the cervix, but rather from a tear in the vagina; tears can happen with vigorous sex or if you are dry.